Diet culture

Different rules, same game?

Different day, same sh*t.’ It was written in capital letters on the pencil case of one of the ‘bad’ guys when I was in high school. That phrase clearly left a mark, and I’m still unsure if that’s because I’m passionate about what drives human motivation, or because it was written so clearly, so real,…

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Diet culture (c) Sofie De Niet Family Dietitian

The rise and fall of the educated eater

Can parents really not know how to give food to their kids?’, a friend of mine casually shared with me. Her description of my work was deficit-based. She thought that parents reach out to me because they don’t know enough, and they need to know more. The reality is that most of the parents I…

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Embodiment

It also takes a voice to raise a child

‘It takes a village to raise a child,’ the saying goes. That’s true. We’re not meant to raise children alone. But here’s something we don’t always talk about: even when do have a village – or something that comes close, like when your extended family is visiting or you’re visiting them – I’ve learned I need a…

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Diet culture

Am I really advocating junk food?

‘Sofie, why are you advocating for junk food?’ is a question I often get. Let me be crystal clear: I’m not advocating for junk food out of some deep love for it. I don’t eat these so-called bad, unhealthy foods that much. But I do want my kids to have a healthy relationship with junk…

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Picky eating

When diets are projected in Plato’s Insta-cave

A few weeks ago, my private Instagram led me to a reel titled ‘What my toddler eats in a day’. Unlike those ‘my kid eats broccoli like a champion’ videos – that are falsely suggesting that eating broccoli is one of the highest achievements in parenting – this video promoted a high-protein, low-carb, and moderately…

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Picky eating

De-pathologizing picky eating

‘I hope my child won’t be a picky eater.’ I hear this so often from parents, and every time I recognize both the worry and the hope behind those words. The tricky part of ‘picky’ is that picky eating lacks a clear definition. Researchers, blogs, and parents all describe picky eating differently: some say it’s…

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